For couples writing their own wedding vows
Vows that fit together — not two strangers’ speeches.
You fill in one form, together: how you met, the one shared memory you both want named, what each of you wants to promise, the tone. About a minute later you receive printable paired vows — his and hers that reference the same memory from both sides, parallel paragraph structure, complementary promises that interlock. Plus officiant quick-reads and pacing notes. The ceremony reads as one rite, not two monologues. Flat $19, no subscription, no account.
Sample paired vows
Maya & Devin — June 14, 2026
Generated for: a fictional couple. Tone: tender + slightly funny. Shared memory: the night of the lighthouse storm. Watch how the same memory appears in bothsides — that’s the part a template can’t do.
Devin’s vows (excerpt)
Maya — I met you calling cadence I didn’t want to hear, and somewhere between the fourth month and the first date I figured out the cadence was right and I was the one off the beat.
I promise to remember the lighthouse storm — the dark kitchen, the camping stove, the pasta that took an hour, you laughing at me for salting the water twice. That night taught me that the lights going out is not an emergency if you are the person across the counter.
I promise to keep showing up — for the cadence call, for the long row, for you.
Maya’s vows (excerpt)
Devin — I spent four months convinced you couldn’t hear me, and the truth was I wasn’t listening either. The first thing you ever taught me was that being heard and being agreed with are not the same thing.
I promise to remember the lighthouse storm — you, calmly boiling water in the dark, handing me a bowl like the power had never gone out. That night I learned that you are the person I want with me when the lights fail. I am picking you again, on purpose, in the daylight.
I promise to keep calling the cadence, gently, and to trust you to row.
Both sides name the lighthouse storm, the camping stove, the cadence — from opposite vantage points. That mutual reference is the structural difference between paired vows and two independent speeches. The full sample includes officiant quick-reads and delivery notes on the full sample page.
They reference each other
Both sides name the same shared memory you provide, from opposite vantage points. Promises interlock instead of repeating. Parallel paragraph structure. A grounding validator rejects output that drifts into two independent monologues and regenerates it.
Tone in two axes, not three presets
Warmth (formal ↔ tender) and tempo (serious ↔ playful) are separate sliders, so ‘tender + slightly funny’ isn’t a preset you can’t pick. The output reflects the mix.
In about a minute, not weeks
A 1:1 wedding-vow writer charges $80–250 and emails back over 1–3 days. A blank page takes the better part of a weekend. This costs $19 and arrives by the time you finish a coffee.
Honor people obliquely
Tell us who to honor quietly — a parent who passed, a friend who couldn’t travel — and the vows acknowledge them obliquely on both sides without naming names, the way couples ask for in real ceremonies.
How it works
- 1. Fill in one form, together.Names, ceremony date, venue type, how you met, the one shared memory both vows should reference, what each of you wants to promise, tone (warmth × tempo), optional in-joke, anyone to honor quietly.
- 2. Pay $19. One checkout, no account, no subscription.
- 3. Receive paired vows. Printable PDF with cover, his + hers vows, officiant quick-reads, and delivery notes. In your inbox in about a minute.
When this is the right tool
Engaged couples writing their own ceremony vows in the 1–8 weeks before the wedding. Beach, backyard, church, courthouse, destination — venue type calibrates the formality. Same-sex, opposite-sex, second marriages where you’re both bringing history into the room. Any ceremony where you want both sides to feel like they belong to the same rite.
When this isn’t the tool
Vow renewals (different emotional shape — revisit after v1.0). Liturgical vows from a specific religious tradition that require denominational approval — we don’t generate those in v1. The wedding toast (best man, maid of honor, parent of the bride) is a different product — that’s a monologue to the room, not paired declarations to each other. We don’t do audio narration. We don’t write the officiant’s full ceremony script — just the couple’s paired vows and a short read-in.
Common questions
- How are these different from any other AI wedding-vow tool?
- Two structural differences. First, the form takes both sides as a single intake — one shared memory you both want named, separate promise lists from each partner, a tone that applies to both. Second, every generated pair is post-validated for mutual reference: the shared memory must appear on both sides, in-joke (if you supplied one) lands on both sides, paragraph counts stay parallel, and any name you flagged to honor obliquely is not allowed to appear in the body. If the output drifts into two independent monologues, we regenerate.
- Can we edit the vows after they arrive?
- The PDF is the deliverable. Open the per-order link in the email to see the same paired view, copy the text into your own doc, edit two lines, print whatever you want. Most couples tweak a phrase or two so the words sound like them when spoken aloud.
- What’s your refund policy?
- Two automatic paths, both one-click from the order page:
- Quality failure. If the mutual-reference validator flagged your paired vows (shared memory missing on one side, paragraph counts skewed, named-acknowledgement leak), you get an automatic refund within 90 days. You keep the artifact either way.
- Verifiable non-use. If our logs show you never opened the vows or downloaded the PDF, you can refund within 30 days of delivery.
- Do you keep what we wrote about each other?
- The order record persists so you can come back to the page and re-download. We don’t use your intake to train anything. See the privacy policy.
- Do you write the officiant’s full ceremony script?
- Not in v1. We generate the couple’s paired vows plus three short sentences the officiant can read before each set (a “quick read”). The rest of the ceremony — processional, readings, ring exchange, pronouncement — comes from your officiant or your tradition.